Nothing has moved me as much as this book in a long long time.
So why do I read "sad books"? Of course I flinch. I am not any tougher than any of you - on the contrary. :)
"But aren't we all in this together?" asks Joseph Grand, the dim-wit clerk in Camus' 'Plague'. The book that still defines who I am, the choices I make on a daily basis, even after 25 years.
The least we can do is to acknowledge another's pain?
I believe this helps me become more human - to willingly stand in the stream of another's suffering, and say: "Yes, I may never live this - but I feel you." Does not have to be everyone's way, but this is mine.
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"In Japan, thousands of people each year became johatsu — “evaporated people” — driven underground by the stigma of debt, job loss, divorce, even just failing an exam."
"A hundred thousand Japanese will disappear every year, not counting the eighty-five thousand evaporations reported by the police. The families who dare consult private eyes increase, says Sakae, "their dishonor".
...Sakae sees his country as a pressure cooker. Its inhabitants slowly boil, constantly being tested. Once the pressure becomes unbearable, they escape. This taboo subject points to the very foundations of Japanese society, just like the 33,000 suicides documented annually, or 90 every day.
"A man worthy of the name never runs. Running is for faucets." Boris Vian once joked.
In Japan, the philosophy is reversed: a man worthy of the name leaves."
'The Vanished: The 'Evaporated People' of Japan in Stories and Photographs' (2016)
Léna Mauger (Author), Stéphane Remael (Photographer), Brian Phalen (Translator)
https://www.pri.org/stories/2017-04-25/japans-evaporated-people-have-become-obsession-franch-couple
